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Negativity is fear driven...
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:04 AM
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How do these fears manifest themselves? Here are a few ways...
- Demanding nature: Although negative people are diffident about their own abilities, they nevertheless put pressure on close-others to succeed and “make me proud” and “not let me down.”
- Pessimism, or the tendency to believe that the future is bleak; thus, for example, negative people can more readily think of ways in which an important sales call will go badly than well.
- The need to control others’—especially close-others’—behaviors. For example, negative people have strong preferences on what and how their children should eat, what type of car their spouse should drive, and so on. (What football coaches should do?)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sapient-nature/201303/dealing-negative-people
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Re: Negativity is fear driven...
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:07 AM
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Or making poasts about negativity. There's another manifestation.
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Not on the list.
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:09 AM
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But keep your head up!
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He'll come up for air when he's finished...***
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:10 AM
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Re: He'll come up for air when he's finished...***
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:24 AM
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Potd
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Checks audience, then wishes FM good luck & god speed...***
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:08 AM
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Sure is
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:10 AM
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- Demanding nature: "Ya'll need to be better fans or i'll quit!"
- Pessimism: "we can't win them all...winning is very hard (even when it's Duke and they are full of 1 stars)"
- The need to control others’ behaviours: "Garrett tends to call short in-routes on first down; so I veto that, and call a dive at the #2 hole."
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I have compassion for you
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:14 AM
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“It’s precisely because negative people don’t feel respected and loved enough, and don’t feel sufficiently in control of their own life that they demand others’ respect and love, and seek to control others.”
and I will say I respect you if that will help.
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"It takes both sides to build a bridge..." - Fredrik Nael.
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:24 AM
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Thank you for being a big enough person to start.
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RA'd, not a football post.
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:14 AM
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I already took a screen shot.
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^The need to control others^
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:23 AM
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Especially their opinions about Brad.
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Re: ^The need to control others^
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Oct 17, 2023, 11:25 AM
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Runner up potd
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